Just heard about the death of lead vocalist of super famous band ” Linkin Park ” .
Astonished , shocked and speechless after listening to the fact that he committed suicide , he just hung himself and died 9:am morning , 20th July , 2017 !
Only one word resounds inside my head ” WHY ”
I do not know the exact ” WHY ” but being a doctor i can advise you about somethings to avoid more suicides like this .
First of all , i must say we have become a society of ruthless and selfish people . All we care about is money , materialistic stuff and show off . We do not care about humans around us . Ask yourself when did the last time you deliberately smiled to make someone happy ? When did you last put some effort to bring some change in someones life except yours ?
We all live in a ” CASTLE OF GLASS ” and we all are weak humans .
Start living and looking out for each other today . Wash the sorrow from off the skin of those who are in agony and pain . When someone says ” I am depressed ” , take it seriously instead of making fun of that person .Do not turn your back on them . Depression is a serious medical illness and it can lead to death . If someone says ” I wanna die ” , do not wait until that person hang him or herself , seek some medical advice immediately.
Drug abuse is the curse for our society. Instead of hating drug abusers be more gentle to them . Help them fight against this beast . Become the wall between them and the drugs . Drug abusers are often looking for an escape from their agonising pain .Try to become their pain killer instead of cursing them . Understand them ,try to empathise .
Chester Bennington was a victim of child abuse for years . Child abuse leaves permanent scars on soul of a human . NEVER let such people drown in their demonic memories . Help them erase those memories . Medical therapies are a must for such people . Chester used drugs to escape from memories of being abused .
Children of divorced parents are especially vulnerable to commit suicide in future . I request you all , if any mother or father is reading this blog and thinking of getting divorced , THINK AGAIN . Your child will suffer from personality disorders which will eventually lead to his death one day . This is the same case with Chester Bennington . His parents got divorced when he was 11 !
Chester kept fighting with himself , his bad memories which consumed him , his fears , his insecurities . He used music as an outlet but ” IN THE END ” he became so ” NUMB ” that he just killed himself . Money , Fame , Power , Spouse , Children , Music …. Nothing could save him !
Because he was a victim of ” DEPRESSION ” which is a medical illness and it needs to be treated otherwise it will devour you like a giant beast .
I Tried So Hard
And Got So Far
But In The End
It Doesn’t Even Matter
I Had To Fall To Lose It All
RIP Chester Bennington